Saturday, August 20, 2011

aDERable-isms

My sweet little boy has been so much fun this summer!!  He has such a fun personality and it seems to really be developing quickly, its like he has a new trick every day.  And so I share a few with you...

 
A-DER-abl-isms
When he knows he is doing something he is not supposed to do, he flashes us a big grin, holds his straight arm high over his head and waves.  Absolutely hilarious!  (Its so hard to keep a straight face).

He points to cords all over the house and says, “nonononono” since he has been told many times not to touch them.

For things that are off limits, like cords, toilets and outlets,  we say, “Do babies play with ____” and then he says, “nonononono” – almost always  5 nos.

He now knows when we are asking him a question and always responds with a “ya!” so cute J  Example, are you ready for a snack? Ya!  Do you want to go pick papa up? Ya!  Do you love mommy?  Ya!  Any question, always a YA!

He will spontaneously throw his arms in the air to show us how big he is.  This is followed immediately by a huge smile, cause he knows its cute.  He also does this on cue…how big is DerBear…

He loves girls/women and when he gets attention in public, he waves and smiles, then starts dancing or bouncing his head from side to side.  Which, they love all the more and then he continues to “charm.” 

He loves loves loves dogs!  He calls most animals he sees “dogdog” (we call them doggies) and will carry his stuffed dog around the house most of the day.  He squeals with excitement when he sees a live dog and starts the “dogdog” chant.  You can imagine how cute he is at the pet store.

He also loves flowers!  Like really really loves them!  He points to every single one in a book or when we are out shopping.  This passion started last week in Colorado when there were beautiful wildflowers everywhere.  We kept a bouquet on the table and were always picking them for him to hold.  I love how much he enjoys the simple things.

He likes to point out things he knows everywhere we go…baby, girl,  boy, dogdog.
He has gotten to be a copy cat, trying to repeat everything we say…and he already knows tons of words, although I am not sure a stranger would know what he is saying!  Some of the cutest attempts to repeat- dinosaur, fish, love you, thank you and popsicle.

Speaking of which, his “love you” is absolutely precious.  It sounds like –dadoo.  And we are teaching him to say thank you.  He usually doesn’t just say it once…its dankew, dankew, dankew.  Way cute!!

He is also picking up on words that mean we are going to eat…like, snack, breakfast, lunch, dinner…and Ill say, “Are you ready for ______” and he will say ya, then cawcaw (cracker) -his favorite!!!

Watching him eat an oreo is great entertainment.  Ryan taught him to dunk it in milk.  He picked up on this really quick and likes them soggy. 

He likes to point our body parts he knows…belly button, nose, ear, hair,  eye (careful he will try to poke them).   He went through a stage where he wanted to see his belly button all the time and we would have to unbutton his outfit so he could find it.

He loves food!  And you will know when he likes something…while eating he will keep repeating, “yummy-yum, yummy-yum” which is so sweet.  I have never seen a happier or more expressive eater!

He loves to make people laugh or join in laughter.  He will often do something he knows is funny then fake laugh…or if everyone is laughing, he joins in. 

The other night, I was putting him to sleep.  He was snuggled in and almost asleep… I thought.  He then lurched out and stuck his tongue out at me.  It was hilarious and he has been doing it randomly sense.  Last week he stuck his tongue out at the flight attendant who thankfully thought it was cute.

He loves his bath time with daddy.  There favorite game is for Der to throw is wet toys out of the tub and get his daddy as wet as possible.

When he gets tired…I will ask him if he wants to go to bed and he will say nightnight or baba (blankey) or ba (bath)…all cues that he is pooped.

He has to have his blankey and thumb to sleep.  He tucks his blanket this certain way in his fist and then sucks the thumb of that hand…he will not suck his thumb without something soft to tuck in….which is hilarious, because when he gets tired, he will use almost anything soft…stuffed animal, Ryan’s boxers, a sock, a tie, burp cloth or outfit.  Its pretty stinkin cute.

He loves to be tickled and he will taunt me to tickle him.  He throws his arms up and head back or does something silly so I will want to tickle him.  One of his favorite things to do before nap/bed time is to pretend to eat things that babies don’t eat.  He will act like he is eating the alligator on the page of a book….and I will say, “Babies don’t eat alligators (or lions or monkeys),” and then tickle him.  We do this over and over until I wear out…He loves it!

He has two favorite songs…Waves of Mercy and Barbara Ann…he likes the chorus.  Nanananana and babababababarbaraann- I think he likes them cause he can sing them…And sing he does.  Before every nap and during most of a car ride, we sing these two songs back and forth.  At first he would just request Ryan or I sing them by saying baba or nana.  Now he can repeat many nanana’s in a row in a singsingy way.  It is so sweet….how could we deny the little guy.  And so, we sing these songs dozens of times a day.

And here is the adorable little guy riding his zebra around! 


                                                                      

Thursday, August 18, 2011

The grass is greener...or is it?

Attitude.  It seems to make all the difference in my day!  Here's an example.

Yesterday... woke up at 4 am having to pee (not unusual for a pregnant lady).  Then I got hungry (also not unusual) and got a snack.  Then I was wide awake with no chance of falling asleep. After going to bed around 11, I knew this wasn't going to be good.  I finally got back into bed at 6ish, thinking I was tired enough to finally sleep..only to almost fall asleep when Der starts to cry-  Are you kidding me?  I get out of bed (not easy to do when you are this pregnant) in pain and feeling weary.  I can tell by Der's cry that it is going to be another "needy" day of teething and I find myself resenting having to be a mom (sad, but true).  I half heartedly sang the song I sing to Der every morning "This is the day that the Lord has made...let us rejoice and be glad in it."  I don't think I even listened to what I was saying.  There was no rejoicing.  There was tiredness and feeling sorry for myself.  This was all before 6:30 am.  I had planned for us to get out of the house and do something fun, but the idea of going out in the heat and toting him around made me decide to postpone.  It took me until after a nap and some time reading "Mission of Motherhood" to be grateful again to be a mommy.  I missed out on that whole morning of seeing God at work!

And then there was today.  I was determined to make it great with my baby...teething and fussy or not.  I played with my snuggle bear, tickled him, held him, chased him and then planned a fun mommy Der date.  We walked the mall (well, I walked, he rode in the stroller), then we went the pet store (he is so so adorable running from cage to cage saying dogdog!), shared a smoothie and cookie and then came home. 

I was still tired (I am tired every day) and weary (that too), but I am realizing that my days with just Der and I are limited and I need to be grateful for EVERY moment, not just the easy ones.  And its okay if I am tired and weary...I still need to have an attitude of gratitude and savor the sweetness of my only baby who is growing up much too quickly.  When I can't get comfy at night or I wake up 6 times, or I sweat just trying to keep the house tidy, or I can  hardly move at the end of the day because my body is so worn out... its easy to complain and wish this last part of my pregnancy away.  But there is so so so much more to be grateful for!!  I really do like being pregnant.  How special that I can actually grow a baby inside me.  How sweet it is to feel baby Brookie kicking and wiggling around.  And what a truly delightful little boy I have.  He is so sweet and funny and loving.  I am smitten with him, when I stop and take notice.  How dare I miss out on all that sweetness because I am feeling tired or sorry for myself. 

I am choosing to enjoy this season of life and be grateful to God even on the harder days.  The grass will not be "greener" on the other side of this season.  I will have a newborn and baby and be a whole new level of exhausted and I will need to believe this lesson I am learning all over again!  Every season of life has its challenges...but it also has so many more beautiful things to be grateful for!

Tuesday, August 2, 2011

Pregnancy Update- 29 weeks

How Far Along: 29 weeks, 4 days...so close to 30-crazy!  Officially into trimester 3!!

Total Weight Gain/Loss: about 23lbs. (I think its supposed to slow down the third trimester....hopefully!)

Maternity Clothes:  All maternity...and Ryan's clothes.  I put on an undershirt of his tonight and it wouldn't go over my belly...a mens medium is too small!

Gender: GIRL!!!!!  Drum roll please...  Brooklyn Noelle!! We debated telling, since we kept Der's name a surprise.  We thought we would give it a try this time around and see how people reacted.

Brooklyn we really liked, especially since it has family ties.  Ryan's great grandpa (Papa), who moved to the US 100 years ago this year lived in Brooklyn...and Ryan's Grandpa worked there too.  Kinda cool...and we thought it would be fun to take Baby Brookie there when she is old enough to appreciate it.  And Noelle would be after its meaning...Christ's birth.  Plus I have loved all the books I have read by Noel Piper (John Piper's wife), so the original idea came from her name.  We just changed the spelling.  We are already practicing her name with Der.  Its a good thing he likes B words :)

Movement: All the time!  This girl is on the go...or trying to break out or something.  The movements are getting stronger and stronger.  I love to watch my belly roll around.

Sleep: Not so much...do I really have 10 weeks to go.  Between the kicking, the pain in my back and side from carrying Der around, and all the changes we have going on right now...I have a really hard time sleeping.  Its no surprise that I am typing this at 12:45am.

Symptoms:  Just starting to feel really pregnant.  Up until recently, my expanding belly hasnt slowed me down.  But lately, there are more and more things I can't do (especially with Der), which makes me kinda sad.  And with the lack of sleep, and changes going on, I have been more emotional these last 2 weeks than the first 26 combined (poor Ryan).  The reality of everything is catching up with me plus the lack of sleep makes me feel a little crazy.

Cravings: Not meat!  I have a hard time thinking of things to cook because meat sounds yucky.  If someone makes it, then I dont mind.  Ryan has been grilling to give me a shot at being able to eat.  I still want cold stuff... and Der and I have "Popsicle" time every afternoon after his nap.

Best Moment this week:  Hummmm... maybe our family outing on Saturday to take Der to get his first doughnut.  He was so cute with chocolate icing and sprinkles all over his face.  Or maybe watching him in the pet store at the mall.  That boy was beside himself with delight, running back and forth between dogs.  They had all the animals he can name: dog, cat, bird, fish- such fun!